Custody disputes are often emotionally challenging and legally complex. When you are fighting for time with your child, being aware of common mistakes can potentially affect the outcome of your case.
Badmouthing the other parent
Speaking negatively about your child’s other parent is one of the most damaging mistakes you can make. Courts in Alaska generally prioritize your child’s best interests, and judges recognize that they might benefit from a positive relationship with both parents. When you criticize the other parent in front of your child or on social media, you risk appearing unable to foster a healthy co-parenting relationship.
Children often feel caught in the middle when parents speak poorly of each other. This behavior can cause emotional harm to your child and may influence the court’s perception of your parenting abilities. Instead, try to focus on maintaining respectful communication with your co-parent.
Violating existing custody orders
Failing to follow current custody arrangements could harm your case. Even if you disagree with the existing order, it is important to comply with it until the court makes modifications. Taking your child when it is not your scheduled time, refusing to return them or denying your co-parent their court-ordered visitation may result in contempt charges.
Courts typically view violations as a sign that you cannot follow legal directives or respect the other parent’s rights. If you believe the current arrangement needs changes, consider working through proper legal channels rather than taking matters into your own hands.
Neglecting documentation
Many parents fail to keep thorough records during custody disputes. It might help to document everything related to your child and your interactions with the other parent. Save text messages, emails and voicemails. Similarly, keep a calendar noting when you exercise your parenting time and any instances when the other parent misses scheduled visits.
Try to record your involvement in your child’s life, including school events, medical appointments and extracurricular activities. This documentation may provide valuable evidence, proving your active role as a parent. Without proper records, you could struggle to prove important facts about your case when you need them most.
Protecting your parental rights
The choices you make during a custody dispute can affect your child for years to come. By avoiding these common mistakes, you may prove to the court that your child can thrive with your support.
